Occasionally, we meet a person who stands out in the best possible way. He might be remarkably charismatic. She might think remarkable thoughts. And remarkably giving people--they are impossible to ignore. If you develop those traits, you won't just be likable; those traits will make people want to work with you and do business with you.That's also why we love being around genuinely polite people. (Not fake polite--sincere polite.) They make us feel comfortable. They make us feel respected and valuable. We would love to be more like them.And we love doing business with them. Here's how people with good manners do it: 1. They always step forward.
You're at a party. A friend gestures to someone several steps away and says, "Let me introduce you to Bob." Bob sees you coming.And he stands there, waiting for you to come to him in some weird power move. Polite people, no matter how great their perceived status, step forward, smile, tilt their head slightly downward (a sign of respect in every culture), and act as if they are the one honored by the introduction, not you. In short, polite people never big-time you; instead, they always make you feel big time. 2. They keep using the name you used to introduce yourself. You're at an event. You introduce yourself to me as Jonathan. We talk. Within minutes, I'm calling you John. Or Johnny. Or Jack. Or the J-man.Maybe your friends call you J-man, but we're not friends (yet), and you definitely haven't given me permission to go full diminutive on you, much less full nickname. Polite people wait to be asked to use a different, more familiar name. They call you what you asked--or later ask--to be called because it's your right to be addressed in the way you wish to be addressed. Anything less would be uncivilised. 3. They don't touch unless they are touched first. (Handshakes excluded, of course.) Polite people wait for the other person to establish the nonsexual touch guidelines. While I know that sounds like no one will ever hug or pat a shoulder or forearm because no one can ever go first, don't worry. Huggers hug. Patters pat. Backslappers slap. That's what they do. Polite people go a step further: They never pat or squeeze or slap (in a good way), even if they are patted or squeezed or slapped. Sure, they hug back, but they don't reciprocate other forms of touch. Why? Some people don't even realise they're touching you, but they definitely notice when you touch them. That makes them feel uncomfortable, and discomfort is the last way polite people want other people to feel. 4. They never let on they know more than they should. Some people share incessantly on social media. And maybe you occasionally see what they've been up to. But polite people don't bring those things up. They talk about sports, they talk about the weather, but they only talk about personal subjects the other person actually discloses in person. Maybe it seems like the person wants everyone to know about a personal subject, but in fact that's rarely the case. So unless his or her social media broadcasts were specifically directed to you, always wait. 5. They never ignore the tragic events. An acquaintance's mom died a few weeks ago. You see him, and you're not sure whether to bring it up.Polite people always bring it up. They keep it simple, like, "I was sorry to hear about your mother. I've been thinking about you and am hoping you're doing OK." Awkward? Absolutely not. You've expressed your condolences (which you should), and now you can both move on: Your friend is no longer wondering if and when you might mention it, and you are no longer wondering whether you should. Where relationships are concerned, tragic events should never be ignored. 6. They never gossip--or listen to gossip. It's hard to resist the inside scoop. Finding out the reasons behind someone's decisions, the motivations behind someone's actions, the skinny behind someone's hidden agenda--much less whether Liam is really dating Jeannette from marketing--those conversations are hard to resist. Polite people know gossiping about other people makes you wonder what they're saying about you. In fact, when someone starts to talk about someone else, polite people excuse themselves and walk away. They don't worry that they will lose a gossiper's respect; anyone willing to gossip doesn't respect other people anyway. If you want to share the inside scoop, talk openly about your own thoughts or feelings--then you're not gossiping, you're being genuine. That's what polite people do. But at the same time... 7. They never speak just to share the greater glory of themselves. How can you tell? If you're talking about something just because it feels really good to share it, and there's no place for the other person to add value, you're just patting yourself on the back.When polite people want to talk about themselves, they ask for advice--but not humblebrag advice like, "I notice you keep your car really clean; what wax do you recommend for a Porsche?" Ask a question that shows you truly value the other person's expertise or knowledge. The person will feel good, because you implicitly show you trust his or her opinion; you actually get input you can use. Win-win.And totally polite. 8. They never push their opinions. We all know things. Cool things. Great things. Just make sure you share those things in the right settings. If you're a mentor, share away. If you're a coach or a leader, share away. If you're the guy who just started a paleo diet, don't tell us all what to order unless we ask. Polite people know that what is right for them might not be right for others--and even if it is right, it is not their place to decide that for you. Like most things in life, offering helpful advice is all about picking the right spot--and polite people know the right spot is always after you are asked. They never judge.They don't judge the person they are speaking to. They don't judge other people. They don't judge other cultures or countries or, well, anything. Why? Polite people realise they aren't perfect either. 9. They're masters of the art of social jiujitsu. You meet someone, talk for 30 minutes, and walk away thinking, "Wow, we just had a great conversation. She is awesome." Of course, when you think about it later, you realise you didn't learn a thing about the other person. Polite people are masters at social jiujitsu, the ancient art of getting you to talk about yourself without you ever knowing it happened. SJ masters are fascinated by your every career step, your every journey of personal transformation, your every clever manoeuvre on your climb to the top of your social ladder.They find you fascinating--and that gives you permission to find yourself fascinating. (That's an authorisation we all enjoy.) Social jiujitsu is easy. Just ask the right questions. Stay open-ended, and allow room for description and introspection. Ask how or why or who. As soon as you learn a little about someone, ask how she did it. Or why she did it. Or what she liked about it, or what she learned from it, or what you should do if you're in a similar situation. And don't think you're being manipulative, because you're not. Showing a sincere interest in people isn't manipulative. It's fun--for you and for them. They get to talk about things they're passionate about, and you get to enjoy their enthusiasm and excitement and passion. And if that's not enough, think of it this way: No one receives too much respect. Asking other people about themselves implicitly shows you respect them. Respect is the mother of polite. 10. They never stop being polite. They don't just turn on the charm the first time you meet. They don't use it and lose it. Polite people keep on being polite: partly because they know no other way to be, but also because they know there is no other way to be. TransfagarasanTransfagarasan Highway has 90 km. The road climbs to 2,034 metres altitude.As one of the most spectacular roads in the world, the Transfagarasan is definitely a must-see for any tourists crossing the Romanian border. This exquisite mountain road measures 93 miles, and it required 4 years to build between 1970 and 1974 during the reign of Nicolae Ceausescu, and was meant to provide quick and easy army access across the mountains in the event of a Soviet Union invasion. . Over 20 tons of dynamite was used to dislocate 3 million tons of rock during the construction process. As with almost any major architectural undertaking, it is said that many workers actually lost their lives while building the road. Due to its impressive elevation, the Transfagarasan is usually closed off each year from October to June because of heavy snow. Moreover, if weather conditions are unfavorable, the road can be closed in other times of the year as well. The Transfagarasan is known for its numerous hairpin turns and steep descents, which is why it can prove relatively difficult to traverse, especially for inexperienced drivers or bikers. Breathtaking panoramas and unique experiences are all in reach for those that get a chance to travel across this magnificent road. One of the most beautiful Places To Visit In Romania. Turda Saltworks Turda Saltworks represents a very important tourist attraction in Turda, Romania. This place was a very important salt source ever since the times of the Roman Empire, but salt mining was particularly popular between the 15th and 17th century, especially during the Hungarian occupation of Turda. In 1932, the Turda Saltworks officially went out of business, mainly because of obsolete technologies and low salt yield, but also because of increasing competition. In 1992, the Turda Saltworks was opened once again as a tourist destination, and it can currently be visited all year round. Attractions include the old Rudolf, Tereza and Iosif salt mines as well as a great deal of perfectly preserved medieval tools. In 2009, the Turda Saltworks was the subject of a massive restoration project that was completed in January 2010. Nowadays, this place flaunts its own amphitheatre, treatment rooms and a fantastic salty lake that has extraordinary curative properties. Bucegi Mountains Bucegi Mountains can be found in the central part of Romania, just south of the city of Brasov. Apart from their immense natural beauty and high peaks, the Bucegi Mountains are also the home of 2 of the most famous natural landmarks of Romania – the Babele and the Sphinx. The Babele are rocky formations placed in close proximity to the Baba Mare peak, which boasts an elevation of 7,519 feet. The stones were shaped by erosion over vast amounts of time, and they now feature a distinct mushroom-like shape. The origins of the rocky formations are still subject to controversy, especially since no scientific evidence can fully explain the phenomenon. The nearby Babele Cabin is definitely the most popular in the region accommodation-wise, since it provides a perfect base for visiting these fantastic landmarks as well as the famous Sphinx. The Bucegi Sphinx was also formed by erosion, and it can be found just 10 minutes away from Babele. This important landmark was photographed for the first time during the 1900s, but the picture was taken from the front rather than from the side. Consequently, it wasn’t until 1936 that the rocky formation got its Sphinx name, since its distinct silhouette can only be observed clearly if it is viewed from a specific angle. Corvin Castle The beautiful Corvin Castle can be found in Hunedoara, in the Transylvania region of Romania. This Gothic-Renaissance masterpiece was commissioned by John Hunyadi in 1446, and it was meant to replace an already existing keep that was built by Charles I of Hungary on the same site. The original Corvin Castle was built in the Gothic style, but it did feature a few Renaissance design elements as well. The building served as John Hunyadi’s home but was also used extensively for defensive purposes, which is why it gradually received multiple towers and extra fortifications. Some of the towers were meant to be used as prisons, especially the Deserted Tower and the Capistrano Tower, while defensive towers such as the Buzdugan Tower featured large openings that would house imposing weapons. Notable improvements were made during the 17th century, including the addition of a new Large Palace and the construction of 2 towers named the Artillery Tower and the White Tower. Sadly, the building fell into ruin after numerous years of neglect, and it even caught fire at some point, which caused extensive damage. The present version of the Corvin Castle is actually the result of a successful restoration. Due to its incredible history and long lifespan, this majestic building is still shrouded in mystery and legend to this day. One of the most popular Places To Visit In Romania. Peles Castle The Peles Castle is undoubtedly one of the most exceptional tourist attractions in Romania, boasting a fabulous architecture and a rich heritage. The castle can be found near Sinaia in Prahova County, nestled within the majestic Carpathian Mountains. This fantastic landmark was built by King Carol I of Romania between 1839 and 1914, and it was meant to serve as the monarch’s summer retreat. The cost for this incredible undertaking was quite enormous, since the construction project required approximately $120 million in today’s currency. Nowadays, the Peles Castle is a very important museum that houses a vast collection of arms, armour and art pieces. Some of the most notable rooms in the castle are called The Honor Hall, The Imperial Suite, The Arsenal, The Playhouse and the Florentine Room, each housing its own unique treasures. The Arsenal, for example, displays 1,600 examples of armour and weapons, including a 15th century German decapitation broadsword and a full Maximilian armour for rider and horse. The Florentine room features a more artful approach, boasting Italian Renaissance elements such as a Grand Marble Fireplace by Paunazio and massive solid bronze doors made in Rome. One of the most interesting Places To Visit In Romania. Visitors of the Peles Castle are greeted upon entry by a beautiful statue of King Carol I that was made by Raffaello Romanelli. There are also numerous other statues scattered across the surrounding terrace gardens, most of them being attributed to Romanelli as well. The castle can be explored only via a guided tour. There are 3 tours available, the first being limited to the ground floor only, while the last offers a complete exploration of the landmark. There is an admission charge as well as an extra charge for those that wish to bring their cameras along (around 20€ per total). The Peles Castle can be visited all year round except for November, when it is closed for maintenance. Merry Cemetery Tucked away in a tiny village of Maramures county, near the Ukrainian border, the Merry Cemetery (Cimitirul Vesel) is not only a very unique burial site, but also an open-air museum and a tourist attraction in its own right. Designed in 1940 by the local woodcarver Stan Ion Patras, Sapanta’s cheerful cemetery stands out for its colorful high wooden crosses carved in oak and painted with scenes of the deceased’s life. Moreover, each tombstone features a witty poem depicting the person’s life and the way he/she died. Even if you can't read Romanian, the simple paintings on the cross tell unmistakable tales of their own. There's one where a priest sits looking enviously at a group of men carousing at a nearby table; in another, a teacher works at his desk while casting a furtive glance at a woman sitting across the room. Many just show scenes from everyday life men working in the fields, women working in the home; or reflect the things the deceased held dear family, friends, animals, booze. Even Romania's dour Communist rulers wanted in on the fun. One former party boss's grave shows him sitting at a table holding up the red hammer-and-sickle symbol. To give you an idea, here is a funny epitaph: "Here I rest. Stefan is my name. As long as I lived, I liked to drink. When my wife left me, I drank because I was sad. Then I drank more to make me happy. So, it wasn't so bad that my wife left me, Because I got to drink with my friends. I drank a lot, and now, I'm still thirsty. So you who come to my resting place, Leave a little wine here." Palace of the Parliament The Palace of the Parliament is a record-breaking building that can be found in Romania’s capital – Bucharest. This massive structure was designed by Anca Petrescu and flaunts 12 stories, 4 underground levels as well as a total floor surface of 3,7 million square feet. Finished in 1997, the Palace of the Parliament is a fine example of neoclassic architecture, but it does feature multiple design elements borrowed from other sources. The construction costs for this massive landmark soared to $4.1 billion, and so the palace currently holds the record for the “most expensive administrative building ” while other records include “heaviest building” and the largest civilian building with an administrative function”, all 3 titles being acknowledged by the World Records Academy. As surface, The Palace of the Parliament is the second biggest building in the world after the Pentagon. During his days as Romania’s leader, Nicolae Ceausescu named the building “The People’s House”, which is why the Palace of the Parliament is more commonly known in English as the “Palace of the People”. The construction of the colossal building has been ordered by Ceausescu in 1980, after the tragic earthquake in '77 where more then 1.500 people lost their lives, 11.000 people were left injured and 35.000 homes were completely destroyed. Approximately 20.000 people had worked 24h/day in 3 shifts to bring up the massive building. Unfortunately, is also often considered a grave stone for what was before a beautiful neighbourhood filled up with history. About 9000 other buildings and homes were demolished to make space for the building bearing the imprint of the country's former dictator. There are also many myths: the building is haunted by the people who died during the construction or that there is a secret metro line who cross the entire Bucharest. Bears' Cave Bears’ Cave is located in the western Apuseni Mountains, on the outskirts of Chiscau village in Bihor County, Romania. Discovered in 1975 by a group of amateur speleologists, the cave is named for the 140 cave bear fossils that were discovered here, thought to be left to die when a rock fell and blocked the cave entrance some 15,000 years ago. The cave is also known for its staggering density of stalactite and stalagmite formations. The cave is more than 1.5 km (0.9 mi) long and has galleries on two levels. The upper gallery, which is 488 m (1,601 ft) long, is open to tourists, while the lower gallery, with a length of 521 m (~1,709 ft), is designated for scientific research. In The Bears’ Gallery (also known as the Bones Gallery) and the Emil Racovita Gallery, visitors can view the skeletal remains of the cave bears (Ursus Spelaeus) that died here, as well as fossils of other animals such as a black goat, cave lion and cave hyena. Some of the skeletons and indeed the walls of the caves still bear the marks of bears’ teeth and claws as they devoured each other and attempted to escape. The final gallery, The Lights Gallery, contains some of the fascinating stalactites and stalagmites, which resemble wax statues and have been given such names as The Mastodon, The Curtains from The Bears Gallery and The Pagodas. Statue of DecebalThe Statue of Decebal is located near the town of Orsova, in southwestern Romania. The Statue is carved into the mountain rock and depicting Decebalus, the last king of Dacia (Dacia was the land occupied by the Dacians, during the 1st century BC and the 2nd century AD, Dacia is located in present day Romania) . The monument is about 40 meters tall (the tallest rock sculpture in Europe). The Statue of Decebal can only be reached by a boat ride but it can be seen from the road (there is even some kind of parking lot in which you stop and view the danube and the monument from a far.) The Statue of Decebalus took 10 years to carve and even though it looks like it is as old as the ruler of Dacia it self it is pretty new to this world (sculptured from 1994 till 2004) – Twelve sculptors worked on it. The entire project was proposed and funded by one of the wealthiest Romanians ever lived, businessman Iosif Constantin Drăgan (1917 – 2008), it is believed that daragan spent one million u.s dollars over this project. There is an inscription (in Latin) right under the carved face, it says: “DECEBALUS REX—DRAGAN FECIT” (or in English -“King Decebal—Made by Drăgan”). Bran Castle - DraculaAlso known as Dracula’s Castle, the Bran Castle can be found in Bran, in close proximity to the important city of Brasov. This majestic structure is commonly regarded as the home of the famous Dracula character brought to life by Bram Stoker, but its history is much more comprehensive than that. Actually, the first written mentioning of Bran Castle dates all the way back to 1377, when Louis I of Hungary allowed the Saxons of Brasov to build their own stone keep. In 1920, the Bran Castle was an official royal residence and ended up being the favorite retreat of Queen Marie. Nowadays, the Bran Castle operates as a museum that houses a large collection of art pieces and furniture that used to belong to Queen Marie. Visitors can choose to explore the halls themselves or under the guidance of a professional. Sarmizegetusa Regia A visit to Sarmizegetusa Regia will provide you with a better understanding of Romanians' origins from more than 2000 years before before Romans conquered Dacia. At that time Sarmisegetuza Regia was the capital of the Dacian Kingdom.
The Dacians are the first known tribe to inhabit the current territory of Romania, their actual origins being obscure. The Dacian Kingdom proves to be a very powerful actor in Easter Europe 2000 years ago as at its might was covering the territory of Romania and significant parts of current Moldova, Bulgaria, Serbia, Hungary and Ukraine. Sarmisegetuza Regia was placed strategically at 1200 meters altitude and it was protected by a chain of fortresses. The site is an outstanding example of Late Iron Agedevelopment and includes a fortress, a sacred and a civilian area proving the spirituality and strength of this nation. At the beginning of the 2nd century Dacia was conquered by the Roman Empire, changing the destiny of the country and of Sarmisegetuza Regia. Having been partly destroyed during the conflict, a replica of it was made 40 kilometers away which served as a capital for the Roman occupied territory and it was called Ulpia Traiana Sarmisegetuza. Nevertheless significant parts are left for us to see, the site being under strict conservation, together with the chain of protecting fortress are under UNESCO world heritage. While most words in Romanian language are of Latin origin, Sarmizegetusa is an example of how the ancient Dacian language sounded. A visit to Sarmisegetuza Regia is possible only by private car,as there is no public transportation to take you there being in an isolated area in the mountains, but there can be arranged private day trips. Did it ever happend to you to have a cold and google for a solution, some magic tea or something like that? Don't know if ever happend to you, but it happend to me. When I was a little girl, my grandma was making this joke like .. if you have a cold, don't worry... without treatment it goes in 7 day, with pills it goes in a weak. Don't know if you get it, but the idea behind this is that you should stop freaking out if you have a minor health problem and don't make a big deal out of it. My actual problem started like two years ago, going to the dentist. I was never afraid of the dentist or injections or that buzz that seems to penetrate your brain at times. Or at least I thought so, or I just wanted to be brave. The thing is that I had my first anxiety attack after a local anesthesia. On the following treatments I had the substances changed, tests done and so on, but my problem with the anxiety just grown, as it was later proven. I have started to think my doctors are all crazy and they want to poison me. I have started to lean about medicines, reactions, contraindications and so on, and ask my dentist and my doctor about everything, thinking they have missed something. It took me a long time to understand and accept that I have anxiety attacks and to lean about it. I never had any medication for it and I tried to understand what's going on with me and control it myself. I have started to read evan more about it and see how people deal with it, as the holy Google was giving me all the answers. Couple of months ago it happend to me the unexpected. As I was coming back from work in car, I started to have difficulties breathing. Naturally, as from two years ago I am scared of many things, I thought is another attack. This one didn't go as usual. Actually it didn't go at all. Was just getting stronger and stronger. I couldn't breath and I was literally thinking I am going to die. And I have started once again to "google". And the amount of answers I have found... it just transformed me into a hypochondriac. I have finally decided to go to the doctor, and guess what. I just had a troth infection. Since then I have decided to stop being a smart ass and accept the fact that I am just a bit scared and mostly human. No more freaking out, no more google research about illness or anxiety. I have learned to accept the fact that I can not know everything and I can't do everything. But I still try to face my fears. And I am so much more relaxed and happy. Still thinking about jumping :) Although we find ourself many times complaining that we have a boring life, we are actually running out of time. Living in the 2000s is crazy. Everything moves so fast and we make efforts to catch up with everything we want to do, beside the regular "must" - must work, must study, must go to school, must take care of the kids, must clean. And all the "must"s drive us crazy. "Must" is not funny. "Must" is horrible, most of the time a mood killer, a day ruiner. I hate "must". As a kid I always wanted to grow up to do everything what I was not allowed or I was not able to do. As a fully grownup, I decide today to be a Super Hero, Wonder Woman, my favorite rock star, a well known actor, a traveler, an adventurer, an artist and a thinker . All together. And that is because I want and because I can with the magic of the 2000s. If you ever wondered like me ,how the "big ones" did it ...well... I don't know. Call it luck, or pure talent and genius. But we envy them badly for not having a boring life. Stop Being Bored 1. Add a “twist” in everything you do. Start planning ahead everything you have to do. I know, it doesn't sound fun, and believe me when I say that I had no idea about how to plan random stuff in my life. I was eternally late where ever I would go (I still am a bit, but only because is my favorite failure), I was the one running on the street and stumble into people, feeling so sorry for myself that I have time for nothing like the worst disasters of the world would be only on my shoulders. "Time management" for me sounded like Chinese. So go ahead and plan. Start with a day, or a week. Add all your "musts" elements in your working/school days, because you need your free days for yourself - and not for sleep. Now add some fun elements in your busy day. For example, I convinced my boss that photo-shooting the dishes we prepare at the restaurant will be good for the business. This is where I added my twist in my work. Working in a restaurant is very soliciting at all times, but I was incredibly happy to do something else, something fun that I was very passionate about. Don't get me wrong, I love what I do. But at the end of the day, evan if you have your dream job, is still a job, and it can be overwhelming at times. Spice it up if you can. Will make you feel fantastic. You have to clean - dance while you do it, listen your favorite music. You have to iron - watch a movie, a documentary, learn a new language from youtube, at same time. We have so many advantages with the internet now. Wanna make a special dinner, something totally different from what you usually do .. google it and get ideas. You never cook because you are most likely to burn the house down or you are to busy? Well, make an effort and you will discover how much fun it is. Evan a burned dinner. While calling for takeaway food you will be laughing your head off thinking of the disaster you just made. Start a Vegetable GardenThis is probably the most rewarding thing to do when you are bored at home. You get to grow things you will be able to eat in a few months or you can evan opt to make money from them by selling them. 2. Go explore Go Biking, hiking or drive somewhere. Be a little bit of a detective and find out everything is around you. You must be surprised about what you can find really close by and you never had an idea that is so close. There is so much beauty in this world and we rarely see it. Open up your eyes. If you like photography, this is a great opportunity to take pictures. If you ever wanted to be a writer, keep a notebook always with you. You never know when the inspiration will "hit" you. Give yourself the opportunity to do what you always wanted, evan if you are just a simple amateur. You don't have to be professional or to have certain studies to do what you like. Is called hobby. What you think I am doing here? 3. Try new things Remember all those crazy stuff you wanted to do when you were a kid? You shouldn't try them. You might be to old and break something lol. It’s always fun to do something new, but often we fall into the trap of spending our weekends the same way. If you’re stuck in the same old routine, it might be time to try something new. I still have on my list to learn how to ride a bike. I know is hilarious, please don't make fun of me. How about this...
4. Keep a Journal Try to keep track on the things you do. You never know when they will be useful. Like a list of what you wanted to do 5 years ago. Might remind you who you really are or what you really want. Maybe notes from an old project like when you start writing your novel when you were 15 - you might finish it. Old favorite songs. Looking back sometimes helps to decide about the "right now" moment. 5. Get famous Now this is the fun part. Put it all online. This is the advantage I was talking in the first place anyway. We are the child's of the 2000. Where everything goes around the internet. You might discover your vocation, start a business on your own or be discovered as a great talent. Who knows? At least you are already doing a lot of new fun things and if that makes you happy, that I think the target was hit. 6. Make friend All this technology should serve for the right purpose that was created for in the first place. To make our life more easy and pleasant. Human interaction is a necessity in order to be happy and healthy. So use it in your advantage. Make friends. And make friends that you'll eventually meet. The ones you can go with out for beers or shopping. Get into a paintball team or something similar. Don't let a screen keep you away from the best it can happend to you. 7. Never get bored again in your life . Get tired !
Get tired from all the things you do. Get tired from being to busy. Will make you sleep better at nights. Time is passing fast. Don't waste it :) I have here couple of tips for who ever want to give it a try and is not so skilled when it comes about cooking. Let's say you want to surprise your loved one and cook dinner, and by surprise I don' t mean to put the house on fire and Surprise !!! I have in mind now two types of 'loved ones', to make a bit funny as well. We know that our loved one, usually come as a pack together with the beloved "mother in law monster" that will never be easy on you when it comes about her life-long cooking skills. And now you are put face to face with the fact that you have to make the x-mas dinner and it has to be awesome. Simple tricks for a pro-like dinner: Act like a Pro Pretend you are the best cook you know. That will give you a lot of confidence. And most important. As you are here reading about this, we both know that you are more a internet geek then a kitchen guru. Document yourself as much as you can about cooking before you start anything. Dress like a Pro You know that you don't have to go now and buy yourself all kind of clothing that will make anyone think that you actually work in the business, but an apron will always do the trick. Grandma was using it for a good reason , and that was to protect her clothes. It's a fantastic start point that will help you look nice and clean, and would give anyone that idea that you actually know what you are doing. Decide on easy recipes You have very small chances to fail. Easy never meant is not good or that the cook didn't put enough work in it. Usually, when it comes about cooking, not complicated is more natural and always tasty. There is a whole battle in the chef's world about what is in trend nowadays when it comes about food. One thing that everyone will agree on is that fresh is the one and only key for success in cooking. Colours trick the eye :) We know that our enjoyment of food is about more than how it tastes. It would be logical to assume that the eating part – the biting, chewing, swilling and swallowing part – is the bit that tells how food tastes. Our mouth is a behemoth of flavour receptors, primed to transmit information to the brain. This tastes bitter, that tastes like strawberries – all that information is processed via the mouth, isn't it? On the contrary, much research suggests that it is in fact our eyes leading the way, our tongues merely follow. "People's perception is typically dominated by what their eyes see", writes Charles Spence, Oxford professor of experimental psychology. This seems to make sense. Our eyes see the food. They tell our brain what it will taste like via a whole series of learned and natural responses, and we taste what we think we should. If you can't decide for the main dish, you have to think what everyone likes. Chicken for example is very common. If you want it more fancy, then you should consider rabbit or lamb, as they are both really easy to cook. Don't be afraid to use the oven. What many people don't know is that cooking with the oven is many times easier than the traditional way of cooking straight on the fire, because you have a constant temperature, and your time of reaction doesn't have to be so accurate as the oven cooking time is larger. Cook with white wine or brandy. It always give a touch of "special". There is no alcohol left in the food after cooking. Makes you look like a pro! Presentation The main difference between traditional cooking and gourmet is the elaborate presentations or high sophistication. Make your dish look nice by arranging the ingredients of your meal "one on top of the other " . 1. Your head is constantly spinning from the four different languages spoken at your office. Belgium is one of those special places where the ratio of expats to the local population is incredibly high. If you work in the private sector, few of your colleagues are Belgium. They’re from France, Germany, India… 2. You’ve learned to eat chocolate for breakfast. Is almost like a religion here. Everyone finds it normal to have chocolate at any moment of the day, starting with a healthy breakfast . 3. You’ve completely changed your definition of “a sunny day”. You now believe the weather’s good “when a patch of clear blue sky can be seen at some point.” 4. Before you go to the cinema, you have to check if the film is in the French, German,Dutch or the original version. 5. You buy a lot of low-cost flights to places in Europe, but you fly from Holland. In addition to having 3 airports of its own - Antwerpen, Brussel and Charleroi, many times you find yourself flying from Eindhoven in Holland, where low-cost airlines operate. Once you’ve bought all the tickets, everything becomes too convenient to remember the details. 6. You’re totally considering the idea of working in one country and living in another.Half of your colleagues commute daily from the neighbouring countries to work. Elsewhere, the idea might seem extravagant to say the least. In Antwerpen though, it’s part of ordinary life. 7.You answer to 'thank you' with 'please' (alstublieft). The dutch version for you're welcome is mostly never used. |
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